Women love cunnilingus. How they prefer to be pampered during oral sex – the best cunnilingus tips from an orgasm expert!
Dear men, you want to drive your wife crazy and really spoil her during sex? Then lick – and for a long time!
Most women melt during oral sex or cunnilingus. So that it is perfect and her sweetheart really gets an orgasm, here are a few important tips for you: Tenderness, variety and patience lead to success!
Licking properly: She has to want it
Before you get started, you should make sure that you both really want it, because otherwise there can be no talk of pleasure (and certainly not of an orgasm).
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Hygiene is the top priority when licking
Duty, before you approach the intimate area of your woman: Brush your teeth, wash your hands, trim your fingernails AND clean! We are sensitive there, dear men! (And after weeks of sex break, because she has caught an infection, no one wants …)
Licking properly: cater to her needs
Satisfying her orally for the first time is not that easy: find out what she likes or dislikes, so that it’s a win-win for both parties.
What every woman thinks at one time or another when a man spoils her with his tongue
Take your time when licking
Her preferences can change. What she found hot yesterday, she may find bland today. Don’t get discouraged, but try harder to tease out an orgasm for her! (This can take longer than 30 seconds at times, so please show some commitment, gentlemen!)
Tenderness is essential when licking
The clitoris is extremely sensitive and likes to be handled with kid gloves. Variations in the licking pattern and additional caresses therefore do not forget! This helps her to get aroused and you to stay relaxed. Fifteen minutes of licking can cause a pretty stiff neck and numb lips. And after all, no one gets anything out of that!
Indulge other erogenous zones as well
Show her what you can do! Start with her upper body. Sensual caresses, kisses and licks from the nipples to the pubic hair will make her moan with pleasure. Don’t go below the belt until she’s already really aroused.
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Show her how much it excites you to lick her.
Show your partner how much you enjoy pleasuring her orally. Appreciate her vagina, its scent and taste. Show and tell her how horny you think it is, and occasionally look deep into her eyes as you lick her, while also moaning with pleasure.
Lick it right: Pay attention to her reactions
Keep an eye on her! Pay attention to your breathing, muscle twitches, moans, and pleasurable squirming. Is she coming towards you with her hips? Then she is about to climax and asks you to continue in the same way. Or her vagina is eager to be filled with your wonderful fingers.
Clitoral and vaginal orgasm: That’s the difference!
Cunnilingus: never change the technique just before her orgasm.
Women just before orgasm often stiffen: this is the moment to continue in the same way, but increase the pressure and speed up the rhythm. Drastic changes just before her climax are fatal now. Just don’t stop the intimate kisses before she comes. While she comes, press the flat of your tongue on her clit and keep licking. Don’t take your tongue away until she says so. The female orgasm lasts much longer than the male one.
